(Closed) Overcome by anger about my husband's accident.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh honey, I am SO sorry that you are going through this alone! 🙁  Just know that, in the least, the WB community is here for you and I am sure we are all open ears to your thoughts and frustrations.  We love you and are thinking healthy thoughts of recovery for both you and Justin!

Post # 48
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@Macintosh:  You’re allowed to have all of these feelings. And that’s ok! It’s part of the process of any major life changing event.

I am glad to hear that he squeezed your hand and that the pressure in his brain is under control. That’s such a wonderful sign of progress and hope!

Post # 49
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

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@Macintosh:  I think what your going through is completely normal given the situation, you have every right to feel anger, sadness, frustration, etc… I think that it’s great your still seeing the things to be thankful for, they may seem small at times but that is what will get you through!

I wish I was closer and could come visit! Just know that all of us here are with you in spirit and we will do what we can to help you through this. Your taking all the right steps, it’s just going to take time….life is precious.

I also hope others, and myself, use your story as a way to remember what’s really important and to tell everyone we love them each day with a hug!

Post # 50
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Mac, 

I’m really sorry that you’re going through this alone. That is really unfair. I’m really hoping for all the best news with Justin and that his recovery will be speedy and smooth. You have every right to be angry. Whoever did this has taken your lives away, even for just a short period of time whether they meant to or not. It’s not fair. 

Sending all the love and good thoughts I can! 

Post # 51
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

much love to you both, my prayers and thoughts are with you and i really hope to keep reading more and more good news. I don’t really consider myself very religious but times like these are when  faith can really help. keep thinking about him getting better, picturing him understanding and hearing…..the body and mind are extremely determined I wish the best fkr you both

Post # 52
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Giant hugs

Post # 53
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

First of all, let me say that you are being so courageous, and so strong.  Being strong doesn’t necessarily mean holding it together all the time, and it certainly doesn’t mean that you can’t be pissed off at the situation. 

What you are feeling is normal, and it’s ok.  It’s ok to break down and have a weak moment, it’s ok to be angry, it’s ok to feel a little lost.  But you are a strong woman.  You will be ok, you will be even stronger.  You have so many people here thinking of you, praying for you, sending positive thoughts your way.  It sounds like you have a good support system at home too.

Hang in there, be kind to yourself and know that it’s ok to be mad.  It’s ok to cry.  It’s ok to laugh too.  We are all pulling for you guys.  Thanks also for keeping us updated, I’m sure there are bigger things on your plate but we really, really appreciate it.  Much love sweetie 🙂

Post # 54
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Macintosh:  I don’t know if it helps to hear this, but I don’t think anyone can blame you in the least for the feelings you’re having.  I think they’re to be expected and really, I think I would feel the SAME as you do if I were in your shoes.

Talking about how you’re feeling (just like you’re doing) to me, is the best thing.  I can’t even imagine how you’re feeling, but I know that if it were my friend going through what you’re going through, the hardest thing for me being on the outside is the feeling of helplessness.  Not having the right words to say or knowing the right things to do.  Some people even feel guilty that it happened to you and not to them.

I’m not making excuses, but I’m just saying, I hope you find solace in the people that are truly there for you.  I hope the situation improves vastly and I hope you remember we’re always here for you too. 

You’re a strong woman for handling this the way you have been, in my opinion.

Post # 55
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Busy Beekeeper

You have every right to angry. Who wouldn’t be under those cirmustances. You and your husband continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. <<Cyber hug>>

Post # 56
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Macintosh, I cry every time I come to your posts because I cant imagine what you are going through. The updates you give are becoming more positive which is amazing even though I know that it is scary and horrible that this happened.

He knows that you love him and that you are there for him, dont ever worry for a second about that. You being there must be such a relief for him and the rest it is giving him is clearly helping alot. It is great to hear that you are getting some support, take care of yourself and be strong for your husband. You are doing such an amazing job 🙂

My thoughts are always with you.

 

Post # 57
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396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Loads of hugs, comforting thoughts, and prayers to you!!

 

Post # 58
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Diplomat Country Club

@Macintosh:  Sweety i can’t even imagine how you are holding together i would be crawled up somewhere. You are a strong woman and you stood by his side everyday and he knows it and I’m positive that’s helping him heal. It’s ok to be angry i would be too it’s just a normal part of the healing process for you to overcome all of this. Know that we are praying for you and everything will work out maybe not as fast as you wish but they will.

 

Post # 59
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

*hugs* All your feelings are completely warranted.

 

Post # 60
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Still thinking about you daily, and sending prayers.

Post # 61
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

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@Macintosh:  just wanted to tell you that I am thinking of you and praying for you and justin everyday. I also wanted to add that it’s completely ok to be angry. Let yourself process everythng and don’t feel guilty for any of the emotions you go through. It’s so great that you are’t afraid to ask for help if its needed. Please take care of yourself and continue to have hope and strength, and when you feel like you dont come here or to family for a reminder of how loved and thought of you both are.

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