(Closed) Overeacting?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3241 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Any wedding I’ve been in or attended, the bride has the fanciest hairstyle. It is not at all unreasonable for you to request that your bridesmaid’s hair style is different from yours. Don’t hint at it. Tell them. That’s the hairstyle you have picked for yourself, they need to pick something different. Or on the day of the wedding if the hair salon already knows of your dilemma, let the hairstylist pick the styles for the bridesmaids.

Post # 4
46332 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Stop hinting and be clear and direct.

“I really do not want you to have the same hairstyle as I do. I’m sure that in consultation with the hairdresser, you will be able to select another flattering style.”

Post # 6
5662 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@venomvixen: Good job – you have every right to expect that they would choose something else and telling them flat out you want to have a unique one from theirs is much better than choosing for them how to have their own hair styled 🙂 Hope they take it well! They should!

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