(Closed) Overly extravagant gifts

posted 8 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Hmmm… your friend wouldn’t want you to be uncomfortable, but I think it’s really sweet that she treats you to these things when you’re unable to treat yourself.

But admittedly, I started doing kind of the same thing when my friend lost her job. I sensed that it made her uncomfortable though, so I stopped. My feelings weren’t hurt or anything, and I wouldn’t have minded at all if she had said something to me about it.

 

Post # 5
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1749 posts
Bumble bee

@Miss OBG:Don’t try to compete, is not about the money. My love language is giving gifts too and I would be insulted if my best friend got all weird about it. It’s her way of showing love.

Post # 6
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16 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2012

If I were you I would look at it like this, one day you’ll have a great job and you’ll be able to give lavish gifts to her, but for now just accept that she can and wants to give you great gifts. One day the rolls may flip, u never know. then u can pay her back by making her feel doted on. ^.^

Post # 7
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916 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

it’s the thought that counts. Just remember that.

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