(Closed) Overly Sensitve?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5475 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@sillie:  “He accepts me for who i am and always tell me to just be myself even when I know I’m the greatest cook or cleaner.”

^^This is what’s important.  My mom’s favorite is my brother, but I don’t let it bother me because I am who I am, and I don’t plan on changing that.  I’m sure your mom loves you in her own way, and maybe it’s an imperfection of HERS that she doesn’t show you how she feels.

Put on the big girl pants & let it roll off your back!

Post # 4
2914 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

I don’t really believe in people being overly sensitive! It is their problem, not yours. Maybe they are trying to make themselves feel better about their own issues by putting you down. You are awesome exactly as you are, because you are you. You have a wonderful fiancé who knows that. Don’t let them get you down!

Post # 5
1414 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Your Fiance loves YOU and wants to marry YOU.

Don’t let others put you down like that.

Post # 6
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ugh, why the hell would your own family treat you like this? Ignore them. Your Fiance loves you. No one is perfect, hun, not even the people who seem like it. <3

Post # 7
1736 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry you had to over-hear that. ๐Ÿ™ It never feels good to hear people say anything less than nice about you, especially your family. I know that my Mom talks to my sister about me (and vice versa). Thankfully, my sister and I are close – so we just take the dose of crazy in stride! You have your Fiance…he wants to marry you just the way you are. Don’t take to heart the opinion of others – just love yourself and allow yourself to be loved for who you are!!

Post # 8
3886 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

You are not marrying your mother or your sister.  So it really doesn’t matter what they think.  If your fiance wants to marry you just as you are, then he accepts you, and that’s really all that should matter.

Tell your mother and your sister to subscribe to HBO so they can gossip about Game of Thrones instead of your upcoming marriage.

Post # 10
102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012


I hear you! I was told no one would love me because I’d make a rubbish wife. Boy were they wrong! (-:

Post # 11
5662 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Omg i would have told my mom to bite me! Good thing they don’t have to marry you and the guy that is seems happy to do so!

Post # 12
23 posts
  • Wedding: April 2014

I’m glad you were able to cry about it, vent on WB and post a few days later that you’re feeling better.  You didn’t deserve to overhear that rubbish and I’m sorry that happened.  I second the person who said nobody’s perfect – even your sister.  I’ll bet she spends a lot of time working on being “perfect” instead of just being who she is.  That’s no kind of life, esp. when everyone knows “perfect” is impossible to maintain.  I’m so happy you’ve found a great guy who loves you and wants you to be his partner in life.  That’s what matters!  Don’t let these family fools get you down, little lady!

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