(Closed) Over/Under on proposal timing. Thoughts… Is he messing with me or for real?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: Do you think he's messing with me, or for realsies?
    He's totally messing with you! It's going to happen before Christmas! OMG MY BFF JILL! EEK! : (4 votes)
    29 %
    Nah, he just seems like a sweetie and wants to make sure you don't get your hopes up. What a guy! : (2 votes)
    14 %
    Hmmm, that's a tough one! It could be either/or, but you sure have yourself a Prince Charming! : (7 votes)
    50 %
    Other (please explain!) : (1 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    1902 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I would say he was being serious, but the fact that he keeps bringing it up multiple times sounds really fishy (once would be enough to crush MY hopes, let alone all the time). Maybe he is trying to throw you off, and keeps trying to get your hopes down so you will totally be blown away when hes asks.

    I sincerely hope its the latter for you 🙂

    Post # 5
    6215 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

    I would guess he’s messing with you since he keeps bringing it up… good luck!!! 

    Post # 7
    412 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @LaviniaRose2013: My now Fiance then Boyfriend or Best Friend did something very similar actually- we were going on vacation for a week and I thought it was coming in then and he sat me down before we left and told me I absolutely would not be getting it on vacation and he didn’t want me to be in a bad mood the whole week thinking it was coming (I was not so good at wait, but come on it’d been 6 months since we looked at rings).  Multiple times leading up to leaving he told me I wasn’t getting it to the point that I got suspicious he had told me so many times.  But we got to our vaca spot on Sunday and still nothing by Thursday so I finally believed him and he proposed Thurs night haha.  It does sound like he’s being suspicious, but expect nothing so then you won’t be disappointed no matter what happens!  Can’t wait to hear!  PS- I’m studying for finals now for my MA program and it completely sucks haha

    Post # 8
    1925 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I voted that it could go either way.  My Fiance tricked me the day he proposed! I was sad cuz I picked the ring out the weekend before and I REALLY wanted it, and I figured that he might have it.  I was upset and he said “It’s not going to happen for another six months.  It’s just not the right time right now!” So I got sad and took a nap (that’s sometimes what I do when I’m upset) and woke up and we cooked a nice dinner together.  After dinner, he proposed!  He said he had been planning it all along but wanted me to get off his track!  So who knows!

    Post # 10
    8 posts

    I say it’s going to be ON Christmas! He said “not before” Christmas, which it wouldn’t be before, and then promised you would “get a Christmas present out of the deal” which totally sounds like your ring. 🙂

    Post # 11
    114 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I think he is trying to throw you off in hopes that it will big surprise.  It def. sounds fishy that he would be bringing it up soooo much! yay! Hope it happens for you!

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