Post # 1
I think I’ve been handing the wedding arrangements pretty well. The only problem came when the rehearsal dinner had to be moved to a new location due to animal allergies and it caused some problems with the new in-laws. But that is a super simple problem compared to what life has thrown at me this year.
1. My fiance has been battling anxiety problems since before we were engaged. This is career related anxiety. Anyone that has anxiety or has a loved one that has it knows that its tough on the person and tough on those around them.
2. My dad lost his job. He was the most stable person I knew in regards to career and life in general until this happened. AND he has just paid $8000 toward the wedding.
3. A couple days ago my fiance got in a car accident and totalled our new Chrysler 300. He is okay (thank god) but we were just informed that the car is totalled. Now we have no car for him. He is a car guy. He traded his beautiful mustang in to get a more adult car for us starting a family. We loved that car.Now we have nothing.
I’m super emotional and with the wedding 2 weeks away, I feel like I am going to fall apart.
Post # 3
Ugh, that is all so awful! The only thing I can say is, time will pass, and things will get better.
Post # 4
All of those things suck, I get why your feeling the weight of them now more than ever…there’s only one place where none of that can reach you, it’s the bathtub….it is a fact that the meaner things in life, including stress and anxiety live in mortal fear of tile, can be dissolved with bubbles and shrink from candlelight….I recommend a bubble bath, with champagne stat…even if we aren’t at a critical point yet, it will prevent one and prevention is better than a cure, right?
Post # 5
I’m sorry all of this stress is coming on at the same time 🙁 Everything will get better with time…unfortunately they all came on at the same time and a bad time at that, which suuuuucks. I agree with nona99. Bathtime. And icecream.
Post # 6
I am sorry.. 🙁
Do you have insurance on the car?
Post # 7
I’m sorry everything is coming at you at once! 🙁
How is your car insurance? Will you have anything left after they pay off your loan to use as a down payment for another car?
Post # 8
OMG hugs. Hopefully things pick up for you and your family.