- 7 years ago
Darling Husband and I were married on Monday at the courthouse (hurrah!), but because our house won’t be move-in ready until Friday, I have spent this week at my apartment.
Now it is down to crunch time — the moving van will arrive in about 24 hours, and my apartment is a disaster area! Boxes everywhere, lots and lots still to pack. I am starting to freak out a little. Last night I had insomnia and couldn’t sleep for hours.
I know I can finish everything today, but it is depressing to see this apartment such a mess right now. It has been my home for almost four years. I’m also a little anxious about making this transition. I have been a single girl for a long, long, lonnnnng time and it is going to be an adjustment to get used to sharing a home, making those daily compromises on everything from “what’s for dinner” to what to watch on TV.
I am eager to start my new life with him. He is the love of my life and I can’t wait to make a happy home together. At the same time I am a little overwhelmed, anxious and even a little afraid of the unknown. Is this normal? Any other bees out there who experienced some anxiety when it came time to move in and share a household with your SO/FI/DH? I would love to hear some stories! Thanks!