(Closed) Pain in the A$$ Groomsman #vent/rant/whatever

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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2542 posts
Sugar bee

I would boot the guy. Sounds like a lot of stress you don`t need.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Have you talked to your Fiance or are you the only one at the end of your rope? Next time he starts complaining, you could say to him “Look, it seems like you really don’t want to be a part of our wedding. We’d like it if you could be happy for us and fully participate, but right now you’re putting a huge damper on what should be a happy time for us. It also seems like it’s become a frustration for you – maybe it’s better if you sit this one out” or something like that. If your Fiance feels the same way, it also might be better coming from him than you; that way it’d be harder for the groomsman to write you off as some bridezilla.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I guess it’s just time to lay down the law with this guy. Let him know he’s not in charge and if this behaviour continues then he shouldn’t be in the wedding.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would tell my Fiance that the guys attitude is ruining my wedding experience and making me unhappy in a big way.  I would also express to him that if things didn’t change I would be asking the groomsman to leave the wedding party.  If your Fiance still blows that off then I would go ahead and kick the guy out of the wedding and assume that your Fiance is ok with it since he didn’t take action.  This should be a joyous time for you and you don’t need the added stress of having to deal with this guy who is acting like a complete jerk.

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