(Closed) Pajamas that are hot but to over the top- do they even exist?

posted 5 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
2555 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

victoria’s secret has some really cute ones

Post # 4
2640 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

I agree with pp, I get the victorias secret pj bottoms (pants) to pair with a tank.  

But,  to be honest with you,  they are just for lounging around the house- Fiance and I both sleep naked ๐Ÿ˜‰   he doesn’t mind when my legs get a bit hairy. 

Post # 5
2122 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

Yes, I have the same problem (though I am planning on having my leg and underarms lasered next year). Anyway, I have the classic tank top and shorts set, and then I also have a winter set with long pants and long sleeves.

Even if it’s hot, if I’m feeling hairy or for whatever reason I want to cover up I go to bed in my winter set and then when Fiance is asleep  or sometime during the night I just take them off and sleep naked! Then in the morning FI’s so sleepy he won’t notice I’m hairy and I’ll just grab a shower and change.

Actually my Fiance doesn’t care if I’m hairy, so maybe your husband won’t either ๐Ÿ˜€ Happy shopping!

ps I would advise against wearing sexy pjs to bed as your normal everyday pjs. I have a sexy set so if I’m feeling frisky I’ll put them on, climb into bed and wait for Fiance to notice ๐Ÿ˜› But if one wore sexy clothes everyday he wouldn’t get the hint!!


Post # 6
2497 posts
Buzzing bee

@wakyzakki:  Victoria’s Secret PINK had pajama bottoms that looked like long underwear. I guess that’s a good way of showing off your figure without having your hairy legs in plain view. But since it’s summer, maybe you should consider waxing instead of shaving. It lasts longer and you don’t have to wear (temperature) hot, long pajama bottoms during the summer.

Honestly, I’m kind of confused as to what you’re looking for. Can you clarify?

Post # 7
1218 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Places like Target usually have inexpensive cotton pyjama pants and long-sleeve tops or slnglet tops to match. I usually don’t spend too much money on PJs because I figure only Fiance and I will ever see them. I only wear them in winter though because our bedroom isn’t heated – if my legs are a bit hairy and I want to wear shorts, Fiance can just deal with it!

Post # 9
1511 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@wakyzakki:  Do you think he would even notice or care if your legs were hairy?  My fiance honestly doesn’t care at all, so I just wear whatever I feel like wearing regardless of whether I’ve shaved recently or not.

I know my fiance loves when I wear yoga pants around the house, and I’ve slept in them several times since they’re so comfortable.  He also really likes the fact that I love sleeping in his shirts (which are huge on me) … Sometimes I pair them with shorts or sweats, and sometimes I just sleep in the shirt and underwear.  I don’t wear a lot of “sexy” pajamas (or sexy, form-fitting clothes in general), but I’ve never gotten any complaints from my fiance.  I doubt you’ll hear any complaints from your husband!  Smile

Post # 10
5660 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

A) as far as pjs go I love pj salvage (Nordstrom sells them as well as nords rack and other stores)  for soft and really cute pajamas, and old navy and target always have great prints on their pajama pants

b) shaving wise I use the intuition with the built in shave bar. Maybe try it out as it makes daily shaving SOOOO much easier than a regular old razor and shave cream! 

Post # 11
526 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

BLUSH has the most incredible sleepwear! I’m obsessed with it and actually wearing the “french kiss” nightie right now. ๐Ÿ™‚

Their styles are both sexy and sophisticated and with all kinds of coverage and for all types of weather and level of sexyness/modesty. All styles are still very tasteful, IMO, and best of all – they are extremely comfortable, made of really soft, breathable material.


Haha, I sound like I work for them. I promise I don’t! 


Post # 12
1497 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have to second the VS pajama sets. If that’s too expensive, though, what about yoga pants? Not the tight ones, but loose, soft ones.

Post # 13
580 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I love VS pajamas and they seem to last forever (I have a pair that is 5 years old and they still look brand-new). If you can’t stomach spending that, I second Target, I have seen lots of cute stuff there. Also check the clearance racks at Department stores. I’ve seen really expensive stuff marked way, way down.

However, I also want to say that I can promise that the only person who will be bothered by your prickly legs is probably you. This sounds like the kind of thing that I worried about during the early days of Darling Husband and I (we’ve been together for 7 years). I was neurotic about having smooth legs and armpits, perfectly groomed eyebrows, makeup on at all times, perfectly coiffed hair, and so on and so forth. One day I happened to forget to shave under my arms and was mortified. Darling Husband just cracked up and was like “Oh, thank goodness…I was beginning to think you were too perfect!” (Or something along those lines.)  Also, I am currently 38 weeks pregnant and cannot see to shave my own legs very well, so Darling Husband sometimes ends up seeing some frightening sights, haha. Let him see you now, it will cushion the blow to your self-esteem later, haha. 

Post # 14
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I have some PJ pants from old navy, they are cotton, come in cute patterns, and very comfy. light in the summer but long enough to cover your legs. just pair with a cute tank or stretchy t to avoid looking frumpy/baggy.

Post # 15
244 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Have you checked out Nordstrom Rack? Before I got married I went there are got some super cute jersey material pjs. They were flirty and girly but def not sexy.

My Advice to you on leg hair: your husband won’t care. LOL I know I fretted about this for months pre-wedding.


Post # 16
2610 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

I wear yoga pants from The Gap along with a tank top. Works fine for me and looks cute.

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