Panic after TTC?

posted 1 year ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1995

It’s a totally normal feeling.  It’s a big life change.  Even when you feel you are ready, it’s still a change knowing there will be someone in your life that you are totally responsible for.  

Post # 3
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Helper bee

anonymous2018 :  when we first started TTC, especially that first month, every time we had sex we were like “omg we just made a baby! AHH THIS IS INSANE!”

Narrator: they had not made a baby.

For us at least the awe and fear/excitement went away after a couple cycles, when you get used to the idea.

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Yes I had this feeling. I’m 20 weeks now and still sometimes panic that it’s too soon we’re not prepared and should have waited til xyz. It’s totally normal! 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’ll echo everything said above. The panic/worry comes in waves with TTC and pregnancy. I vividly remember driving home one day pregnant (can’t remember how far along) and totally freaking out that I wasn’t responsible enough to be a mom. (I was, I just let my mind talk me into an idea that scared me about not being ready). My D-D is three now and I’m pregnant again and even after trying for 4 cycles and then finally getting that BFP you have moments of questioning/worry/doubt. Totally normal.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Yes. I feel this way every single time I remember how much daycare costs. :’D

But I’ve come to accept that I’m such a planner that I’ll always panic about the costs associated with childbearing and will never feel like we’re financially ready. I’m not getting any younger and I can always make more money… I can’t go back in time and decide I should have had kids.

So here we go!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Darling Husband and I have been TTC for basically 4 YEARS now and I still freak out every time I think I’m pregnant.  I mean, our life is pretty great right now and having a baby would totally change things.  It would be a good change, but change is hard!

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