Panic attacks because of breakup with man afraid of marriage

posted 4 months ago in Emotional
  • poll: Did I make the right decision?
    Yes : (12 votes)
    100 %
    No : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    197 posts
    Blushing bee

    Yes Bee, you did the right thing. You should cut him out completely (block him on all platforms) and leave him and his mother to their life together!

    Post # 2
    197 posts
    Blushing bee

    Double comment

    Post # 4
    5209 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2017

    xcoralskullz11 :  you did the right thing. Anxiety is a beast, it can be so unbearable. It makes you distrust each decision you make. I used to have horrible anxiety when beginning relationships, when ending relationships, when meeting relationship milestones… it involved waking up a three am in a panic, completely sick to my stomach. I would lose weight from not eating and from throwing up.

    i know how unbearable this is. You did the right thing and you KNOW you did the right thing. Listen to your logic and not your anxiety. This guy is already in a relationship with his mom and he has no room in his life for a girlfriend.

    What helped me with all of this anxiety was getting treatment for it. Have you seen anyone about your anxiety?

    Keep up your pep talks, keep reminding yourself that you did the right thing. Self talk is what helps with my anxiety but you might find something else more helpful 

    Post # 5
    948 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

    I think you did the right thing. I don’t think marriage is on his mind right now. He has already told you why. At least he gave you a valid reason. Some men just string along women and tell them what they want to hear. So I give him credit for that. But in all honesty I think you two would be dealing with his mother through out your relationship. And it sounds to me like you have a little resentment towards her as far as not working or at least holding down a job, and saving money. She seems to rely on your ex for financial reasons and a lot more. And if you stayed in this relationship your resentment towards her would escalate. Move on Bee it will be ok.

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