(Closed) Paranoid about smell.

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
1789 posts
Buzzing bee

I can bet that you smell/taste just fine. When my SO and I had first started dating, he tried putting his hands on me several times, and I pushed him away several times(we had already been sleeping together) and he was so confused to why I was rejeting him. I eventually told him that I wasn’t shaved and I was more than stubbly. He goes “….Is that it??” I was flabbergasted. Every other man I had been with would be in awe if I had more than stubble down below. Over 4 years later and he doesnt care. I do, but he doesnt. I still joke that he gained points for that. That he went down on a man on a camping trip, lol

Post # 19
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Different men will react to your pheromones differently. Thankfully your husband seems to appreciate yours!

Post # 20
9544 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think you just have to work to put it out of your mind, in the moment. If you find yourself stressing about smell while you’re getting hot and heavy, try to put those thoughts aside. Tell yourself that he loves you and lvoes the way you smell and you’re not going to worry about it. Then focus on how amazing he’s making you feel. Narate in your head, if that helps, but keep it all sexy and positive! I definitely think it’s related to your douchebag ex, but it’ll get better with time and positive experience!

Post # 21
2970 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If he goes right for it. He doesn’t mind. At all. 

If he cared he would wait for you to shower, because he knows you prefer that. 

If he’s that gung ho, I would imagine he likes it.

To be honest, I like going down on my man just as much when he gets home from work as when he’s fresh out of the shower.  Maybe even more, cause he tastes like him and not like Old Spice Hawkridge body wash. Which smells delightful, but loses something in the taste department.

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