(Closed) Paranoid FI is cheating. Help!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 256
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

rs2reba: Just wanted to say that I totally get what you’re saying and I agree with you.

However, it doesn’t sound like the OP has this type of relationship with her Fiance, so in her shoes I would be feeling pretty paranoid too.

Definitely something for her to consider though moving forward.

Post # 257
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

EDT: Double post

  • This reply was modified 3 years, 5 months ago by  snugglebutt.
Post # 258
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Helper bee

Commenting to follow

Post # 259
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Helper bee

Hope you are ok

Post # 260
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Helper bee

Comment to follow

Post # 261
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Hope you’re okay, we’re all thinking about you!

Post # 263
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Helper bee

solnishko1186:  why in the world would someone make this up? fhanks for info, I thought the stories sounded so similar!

Post # 264
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

solnishko1186:  Do we think both of them are fake? (I confess, I was following that one too!)

Post # 265
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

*sorry for the double post*

Post # 266
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Worker bee

CarolinaJames:  following both – started doubting when i read the second. plus no update (that is my selfish side wanting to know/kick him to the curb)

Post # 267
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

the circumstances seem a bit different in each thread, im following both.

Post # 268
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Bumble Beekeeper

The way the second one was written seems almost too juicy to be true. Especially in the latest update. The stealth! The triumph! I dunno. I wonder if it’s the same author, who changed some details in the second one in order to protect her anonymity. 

Post # 269
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Busy bee

I would not be surprised if they are the same person. If so, and if this isn’t some creative short fiction, I hope she’s okay (whichever thread is the real story)!

Post # 270
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Blushing bee

My SO did not cheat on me but did leave me for someone else. I would snoop through his phone and then talk with him. Tell him that you are uncomfortable with him skiing alone with another women and you don’t want him to go with her unless you come along. If skiing is that important to him, maybe you should try to learn. 

If other things in your relationship arnt going well, then maybe you should take a break.

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