- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Yesterday I made my wedding timeline and I asked for a little consolement from them cause I was worred about the time frame of having everything done. I get an email back from then 5 hours later basically telling me that one of the the TWO things my Fiance is requesting he wants to cut. Like completely. In his words “I hope that was a goof on that schedule as we already agreed to have it the night before for the rehearsal dinner” I never agreed to anything with him. I said I will tell my Fiance and if he does not agree they can work it out. Also, in the email he is trying to take away the grandparent dance. I know that is not customary but my Fiance grandmother asked me if she could have a dance with her only grandchild. I would never deny her of that. Fiance likes the idea as well. He said it can happen during open dancing. NO. I want it to be treated like the father/daughter and mother/son dance. He doesnt seem to care obviously. In a previous discussion about our pastor he said he wanted his pastor to marry us but ours can stand up there. NO. We are getting married in my parents church because we do not live there. The church gave permission for our pastor to marry us. Fiance will only get married if our pastor is the one to marry us. He is very adement about this. I agree. I do not want a stranger that does not know us or our beliefs to marry us or try to tell us what marriage is.
I am so tired of trying to make them happy. This is supposed to be a happy time in my life and they are making me hate it all.