Post # 1
My parents are driving me up the wall!!!! Apparently having a limit of the number of guest we can afford to pay for is a major no-no in their book. The more I say I can’t afford to invite more people, the more people they find to invite. I’m two seconds from say F it! Nobody is invite I’m going to Vegas!
Post # 3
@Kabira1208: Unless they are paying, their opinion doesn’t matter. He who pays, says.
I would ask them where you are supposed to get this magical money from. Or ask them what their plan is to pay for these extras.
That is if you want to invite them at all. Presumably these are not people on your must invite list.
Post # 4
- Wedding: October 2014 - Church
@Kabira1208: Sucky. Ask them if they want to pay for extras. If not then tell them to quit it, there is no discussion on the table for extra guests.
Post # 5
@Kabira1208: Unless they are contributing they don’t really get any say. Obviously it’s kind of you to invite a few people they want that you otherwise wouldn’t invite but don’t feel obligated to invite anyone you don’t want to/can’t afford.
Post # 6
Agree with the PPs, if they’re not paying they don’t get to put extra people on the list. Tell them that anyone they want to add on they have to pay for.