(Closed) Parents are driving me nuts over the invite

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3266 posts
Sugar bee

@Kabira1208:  Unless they are paying, their opinion doesn’t matter.  He who pays, says.

I would ask them where you are supposed to get this magical money from.  Or ask them what their plan is to pay for these extras.

That is if you want to invite them at all. Presumably these are not people on your must invite list.

Post # 4
1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

@Kabira1208:  Sucky. Ask them if they want to pay for extras. If not then tell them to quit it, there is no discussion on the table for extra guests.

Post # 5
7106 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Kabira1208:  Unless they are contributing they don’t really get any say. Obviously it’s kind of you to invite a few people they want that you otherwise wouldn’t invite but don’t feel obligated to invite anyone you don’t want to/can’t afford.

Post # 6
1303 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Agree with the PPs, if they’re not paying they don’t get to put extra people on the list. Tell them that anyone they want to add on they have to pay for.


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