(Closed) Parents Friends With His Ex On Facebook: WWYD?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 63
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Honey Beekeeper

@badabing88:  Of course she will use the kids accounts.  IMO kids that age should not have accounts at all, but if she allows them, there’s nothing much you can do.   Which is why it’s even more important that your FI’s parents stop posting anything about you on there.  

I’m glad that you are looking into a new hearing. If she has gotten any inkling of this it may be why she is acting out at this time.  

Post # 65
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

You can’t choose who other people are friends with, however, you can choose who YOU are friends with. If his parents continue that behavior he should unfriend them and stop communicating and visiting with them. Clearly they are the source of the info, so in my expereince when there’s a leak – you plug it. 

Post # 66
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

It’s good that your Fiance is trying to get a new custody hearing. What is the current custody arrangement?

Post # 68
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

@badabing88:

A normal break up isn’t a reason to go crazy.  Obviously it is totally possible that she could have already been crazy.  It just seems strange and fishy

Post # 69
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@weddingmaven:  Ahh, yeah idk why I didn’t think of that. Obviously just because they block them does not mean that the parents won’t still “check in” on their behalf. I just cannot for the life of me understand why they insist doing something that serves them no purpose but really hurts the lives of their son & soon to be daughter-in-law.

@badabing88:  That sucks so bad. I second the legal action. It seems like the only way to fully negate the problem at this point.

Post # 71
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Honey Beekeeper

@badabing88:   Was there a reason  why your Fiance was not awarded more visitation back when?  Even when the mother has  primary residential custody, usually the father has set times where he sees the kids. 

Post # 73
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Honey Beekeeper

@badabing88:  I think you deserve to know a lot more at this point. 

Post # 74
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@badabing88:  I take it she isn’t seeing anyone else since she seems so fixated on the two of you? That is a crazy long amount of time to get over a relationship ending. I would be enlisting therapy if I wasn’t over it in a reasonable timeframe. Do they still have mutual friends, or is just his parents that are causing you some grief?

Post # 75
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@badabing88:  sounds like the best course of action to me.

Post # 76
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@badabing88:  I am not an attorney, but I have several guy friends who have been through difficult custody battles. I hope your Fiance is keeping a detailed log of the ex’s inappropriate and threatening behavior toward himself and you, because in many states, it is extremely difficult for the father to obtain even half custody of the children, especially if he was not ever married to the mother. The antics you are describing speak to her volitility, and it may be helpful to have a record of them in case you are asked to recall them at a later date to show a pattern of her behavior.

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