(Closed) Parents split up :(

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

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MissTravelbug:  So sorry you are going through this. I’ve been through something similar my last year of high school so I feel for you. Just know that everything works out in the end and that you’ll be alright. Sending you positivity and good thoughts.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

I am so sorry.  My parents split after 25 years and I took it very hard too.  I don’t have any advice other than don’t pick a side and try not to find out what went wrong.  You don’t want to be jaded by either parent.  Love them each as a single person and also love them as your parents.  My parents were always  a team when it came to something that affected myself or my siblings.  Hopefully yours can do the same.  Hugs to you.  

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

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MissTravelbug:  im really sorry to hear that. My parents briefly split up too, but were able to work it out.

The only way i got through it was to realize that this was a decision made by two adults and they both deserve to be happy. If this is what will make them happy all you can do is support them and be there for both of them. You have to try to make it not about you no matter how hard or emotional it gets for you. ::hugs:: you enjoy every last sip of that wine and cry it out if you need to.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 11 months ago by  MissJulianna.
Post # 5
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Blushing bee

I’m so sorry 🙁 I’m a few months down the road from where you’re at right now… All I can say is that I hope for the sake of your sanity that their divorce goes as well as it can and that I hope you have no siblings left at home. I moved away from home about 2 1/2 years ago and wasn’t necessarily super close with my parents but their divorce has hit me pretty hard. 

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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MissTravelbug:  I understand exactly what you are going through.  I am engaged to be married in May of 2016 and I received a call from my Mom last week.  She told me that she was going to be leaving my father and separating from him for at least year maybe longer.  They have been married 45 years.  I am 38 and getting married for the first time, just in case your are doing the math on that.  Anyways, I feel you it, hurts because they have been my example.  I always thought if my parents can stay togther so long, so can I.  I am also worried about drama during my engagement/wedding.  I jjust want eveyone to be happy.  I will say that I also want them to be happy and in the end they are doing a pretty good job of not involving me in their prroblems and at the same time doing what is best for themselves.  I hope my parents can work things out and I hope yours will too; I guess we can only hope for the best.  Congrats on your engagement and future marriage.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2015 - Golf Course

So sorry, my parents split when I was in second year university. Try to be supportive of both, I’m sure they will both be going through a lot of tough stuff emotionally. Best of luck <3

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