(Closed) Parties: 1 bachelor, 1 bachelorette, AND 1 coed??

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Both…as long as your parties are cool w it.

You may appreciate the tradition later on and who doesn’t love parties.

Post # 5
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Helper bee

This is exactly what we want to do..we just aren’t sure if we are going to do it because of costs.  What we are thinking is instead of renting a place to have the coed, just to have it at our local park or our house where the fees (if any) are minimal.  We are going to cover the cost and look at it as more of a prewedding party and to show our appreciation for our bridal party.  Then the bachelorette/bachelor parties will be on the bridal party.  

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I think that sounds like a great idea. A weekend with the group together, but with some separate activities. Perfect!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I think it would be fun to do all three. Or if you don’t want a just girls one, let him have the just guys… but make them to the co-ed as well. I think you should plan the co-ed a few weeks/months beforehand though so it won’t be overkill. I’m used to going on bachelorette weekends a month or so before the wedding. None of my friends who were brides wanted to do it the week/night of. So it’s definitely something that would work out 🙂

Post # 10
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Helper bee

@MamaHusky3: It depends on your group of friends.  I know my friends would never miss a chance to hang out and party so I don’t think it is over done and I think that combining it could be great if you have the right family/friends.

 

Since you aren’t having alcohol, no one would be hungover just make sure you allow time for sleep 🙂

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

MamaHusky3  I love the idea of separate bachlor/bachlorette parties and then a coed party the night before.  Our friend’s did that and it just added to the whole weekend.  It will give people a chance to hangout if they haven’t seen each other in a long time and break the ice for people meeting for the first time. 

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