(Closed) Partying in Vegas

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think that some people who aren’t in long-term relationships with good communication just can’t understand the dynamics– to certain people it will always seem like someone is controlling the other person or that a commitment is a death sentence for fun.  I’d be frustrated and I’d make a mental note not to ask for this friend’s opinion regarding relationship questions. 

 

Post # 4
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You responded to that just as I would have.  There is no “allow” in our relationship either.  I have full trust of my Darling Husband and I get kind of erked also when friends ask me if I will “allow” Darling Husband to do something. 

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would have totally felt the same way

I used to be the same type of partier, except it was certainly not in Vegas! Hubs and I used to go clubbing regularly when we first got together. We finally got tired of the scene and now we prefer small local bars or drinking at home with friends.

But, that doesn’t mean that if an opportunity to go to Vegas for a weekend came up, we wouldn’t be all over it! But the partying like its 1999 days came and went for us

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

@bookworm88: you made a great point, you are right that in a committed relationship, it seems like there is some sort of controlling going on; when in reality its compromising for the greater good of your relationship. Good points!

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