Post # 1
Hey bees! I feel kind of bad but not really…my Fiance and I hung out with some family today and almost everyone was drinking. We almost never drink because we are very focused on school and have been for the past 4 years, so I didn’t mind. However, he just passed out on our living room floor and I tried twice to wake him up, for about 5 minutes each time. The last thing I asked him was, “do you really want me to go to bed alone and you to sleep on the floor?” and he said yes so I’m leaving him there lol. I know he has class in the morning, and I have no idea how his alarm works or even what time he needs to be up. So I guess I am going to give some tough love right now and let him learn his own lesson. I seriously tried dragging him, pulling him, shoving him, and telling him to get up and he is just too drunk to know what’s going on lol.
Have you ever had to give some tough love or ever let your SO/FI/DH learn their own lesson?
I might go back out there one more time to try, but after that I give up and I’m going to bed!
Post # 3
Please just make sure he is on his stomach in case he throws up in the night. Not much you can do to move a drunk person if they don’t want to be moved. I don’t think tough love would work so well if he’s really drunk, lol. Just let him sleep it off and keep an eye on him.
Post # 4
Yepp he is 🙂 and I did the impossible and got him into bed!! He was not happy about it though lol. I feel better that he won’t be sleeping on the floor.
Post # 5
@kkish3: Sounds like my BF after SuperBowl. He was just going to stay up for a bit to give our dogs some time outside of their crates before coming to bed (we went to a friend’s place to watch the game so the puppies were in their crates for a bit). He said he’d be up to bed in 1/2 hour to 45 minutes. Well 4 hours later and I wake up to my puppy barking because she wants to go outside (if she’s not in her crate, she wants to be outside, until she gets too cold, then she comes in to warm up then heads back outside). We have a bell on the door for her to ring to go out, and she had rung it sveral times with no response so she just started barking. I went downstairs to check on BF and I could barely wake him up. I was not a happy camper. We had a talk the next day about his drinking and he promised, no more cray nights like that.
If he’s your Fiance you must at least have some idea of about what time his classes are and where he goes to school and how long it will take him to get ready then get to class. Could you not set your alarm for about the time you think he needs to get up? Or if you need to get up before him could you set your alarm for when you need to be up then re-set it for when he needs to be up?
Post # 6
I realized that his alarm was already set, because I could see a little red dot on it. And much to my surpirse he got up and went to class, but first apologized for being mad at me when I made him get into bed lol and then thanked me because he said he would have had a huge headache if I didn’t make him get into bed.
And I am glad that you and your Fiance had a good talk after that happened!