(Closed) Past due and MIL driving me nuts!

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Just keep repeating, “The baby will come when he’s ready.”

Post # 4
330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ugh. Darling Husband and I were talking the other day about how technology makes things like having a baby or announcing an engagement SO much more complicated.

No advice from me except “losing” the phone 🙂 Good luck with your Mother-In-Law & keeping zen!

Post # 5
241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m so sorry!  I just blew up at lunch with Darling Husband about this very thing, and I’m not even past due.  I wish someone could tell everyone in the world that no pregnant woman ever wants to hear “is the baby coming today” or any variation of that.  I have pretty much resigned myself to not hanging out with anyone other than Darling Husband until our LO gets here – I may not be able to control my response to the next person who brings it up.  Feel free to vent away here and scream if you need to.  Totally normal!  

Post # 6
1058 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

They need a “things NOT to say to a pregnant woman course” because some people are so ignorant to what they should allow to flow out of their mouths.

Post # 7
4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

People are just concerned and excited for you, and just want to check in. Just try to take it in the spirit it was meant.

Post # 8
901 posts
Busy bee

Agreed, “lose” the phone. Hand it over to your husband and have him respond/delete all the comments.

Post # 9
4355 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

MIL’s have a way of doing that, don’t they? I love mine, but some days she drives me out of my tree too and I’m not pregnant, or overdue pregnant. I can’t imagine how many ways she’ll drive me insane when that time comes. I like the advice that the others have given to turn off your phone and ignore it until you’re too blissed out on your new babes to care what she says haha.

Post # 10
701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

JulesSchnooks i agree with you. OP People are just excited for you. They are not trying to be rude, or obnoxious. I really dont think its meant to hurt hurt you when they check in with you. Yes its annoying, but it is the birth of your baby that is really exciting and people just want to share a happy moment with you. Your Mother-In-Law just sounds like she trying to be supportive, and is just eager to meet her grandchild. Hope your LO comes soon enough for you. 

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