(Closed) Pastor wont marry us (long)

posted 6 years ago in Christian
Post # 61
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  • Wedding: June 2015 - Church

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LeonardLady:  I certainly hope your Fiance figures out what he believes, because its hard to be married to someone no matter what they believe and when you have two differeing beliefs that can complicate matters. 

That being said, I think it would be great if you and your Fiance could find a place to worship together, a place that is open to walking the two of you through some of the sticky questions he might have about faith.  Now that being said, my church won’t marry people who are openly living together before marriage, but they will marry people who move out temporarily before the wedding or at least make a real effort to. They are realitsic about the many reasons people move in together and although sex before marriage is sin, and living together before marriage is sin; they know life happens.

Post # 62
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

It sounds like you are very committed to your church & your faith.. So I dont understand why you are marrying someone who has different beliefs to you regarding such a fundamental part of your life.

Im not saying your church was right or wrong in their actions, but from my own personal experience, whilst your relationship might be good, a relationship with another Christian would be entirely different.


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