- 6 years ago
I can honestly say I didn’t think this point would come for me in a relationship again. Following my first marriage, I had NO intention of wanting to get married again, but here I am after a little more than 2 years with Mr. Wonderful, and I am waiting.
Mr. wonderful is honestly a fabulous guy, though I know he has his faults. However after more than 2 years not a peep has been mentioned towards marriage.I love him to death and would wait for several years for him to be ready.
Here is my problem, I am wondering seriously how close he is to wanting to get married, but frankly I am terrified that what I am wanting and where he is will be forever apart. I know that he is happy with how we are, as am I. Last Christmas his mom came to visit thinking that he was going to propose,,, at that point he told her it was too early.
I would ask calmly, but Mr. Wonderfull doesn’t exactly do so well with relationship conversations etc. Even saying “I love you” was a big deal for him. I really don’t want him to feel uncomfortable with our relationship. He is uber private, and doesn’t want to be mushy ( we’ve talked about that, and I know its just who he is).
I have let him know how I feel about him in my passive agressive way ( I did a card one day, so I could let it all out), so he knows that if he does decide to propose he has no worries.’
Both of our families are completely on board with us getting married, and we’ve been asked on Multiple occasions when we are getting married. Which kills me because I am sitting there going, I would marry hime tomorrow if he wanted.
So how do I ask him where he’s at without freaking him out? Any ideas