(Closed) Patiently waiting… Just want to share

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Dont set urself up or disappointment. Just enjoy tomorrowfor what it is and if it happens it will be a pleasent surprise πŸ™‚ good luck girly! Im crossing my fingers for you

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2015

ooh congrats on your aniversary! I just ceebrated my 4th anniversary with my SO last month. Although we didn’t have an agreement, I was still a little suspicious that there might be a proposal. I definitely shut it up that weekend so i wouldn’t ruin any surprise. It didn’t happen (and probably wont for another 3ish months) and thankfully I wasn’t too disapointed.

I hope your proposal comes soon, It’s really nice to hear couples who took a break and came back together πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Private lodge

How did it go?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

update! Update! what happened??

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2016 - Akron, OH

Suzy133:  I’m sorry to hear that, but at least since you told him your thoughts maybe now he’ll take it into consideration more. It’s okay to cry and to get upset, it let’s them know that we’re human too and we have feelings, and sometimes it’s not until we get a lil crazy that they begin to finally understand them. I agree that it’s even more difficult because it’s something we all want but have no control over the situation. Just be patient though and try to cry anymore (you’ll ruin your makeup)! Just try to live in the moment and enjoy it while you can. I’m sure he just wants to surprise you when you’re not expecting it. Good luck sweetie, and happy waiting! I hope it comes soon! (:

Post # 9
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Newbee

πŸ™ I sure he will ask soon

Post # 10
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Suzy133:  when we hit the 4 year anniversary I expected it and when it didn’t happen I was disappointed. Fast forward 6 months (two weeks ago) and it happened when I didn’t expect! If you try to distract yourself it will happen when you least expect. After all it’s engagement season! Good luck lady! πŸ™‚

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Suzy133:  I teared up a little too on our 4th when it didn’t happen. I promise you it will! You’ll forget you were ever waiting because you’ll be in engagement bliss!

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Suzy133:  Thanks!!! I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you!!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Suzy133:  So sorry it didn’t happen! I have been there many times. My Fiance and I were together about 5 1/2 years before he proposed, so it’s hard not to think “Maybe this time” any time there is a momentous occasion (birthdays, anniversaries, etc.). It’s incredibly frustrating, because you feel pretty powerless! Even if financially you are stable (as were we), there could be other emotional factors that account for the feet dragging. However, as the other Bees have told you – it will happen πŸ™‚

Wishing you the best!

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

 that is such a guy response… Hopefully he gets the picture now! Can you use this opportunity to sit down together to talk about when it may happen? I’m not about surprises that much πŸ™‚ 

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