Pay for attending engagement party?

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 46
613 posts
Busy bee

Please tell me I am not the only one thinking *this engagement party is waaaaaaay more per person than my wedding is going to cost*!!!!!!

Post # 47
619 posts
Busy bee

This is pretty poor of your brother. Hate to say it. But this is rude. 


You dont charge for an engagement party… its not necassary. If you cant afford something fancy that you want… then thats life. Will he expect people to all chip in next time he buys a car for his birthday.. its a bit silly. 


I would decline and tell him why. He should know. I would be pretty annoyed. 

Post # 48
1762 posts
Buzzing bee

ctbxbee :  nope this is more than the cost for mine too and we’re going to Prime Steakhouse in Las Vegas for dinner. 

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