(Closed) Paying for bridal shower

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2397 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

From what I understand, if the bridal party is paying for the shower then usually everyone in the bridal party chips in.  Have they asked you to contribute? If you’re financially unable to do so, I would just explain that to the other bridesmaids.    I’m sure they’d understand, especially since you’re a student.

Post # 4
1051 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

As Maid/Matron of Honor, I & the BMs hosted my bff’s shower last summer in Pittsburgh.  Four of us were able to make it (though we all live out of state and had to fly in), but one was super preggers AND living all the way in TX so she couldn’t make it.  She still chipped in for the shower both party & gift, but she didn’t chip in for the b’party later that night (this is the arrangement we all agreed upon) since it was super casual.  

I would just talk to everyone and hear their thoughts and voice your own.

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