Post # 1
I work at a restaurant and a couple I was waiting on took things a bit far. It would take forever to get their attention when bringing food or drinks. I know you love each other but not everyone wants or needs to see this. How do you feel about this? Does the type of establishment matter? This is more of a family restaurant.
Post # 3
You could have “accidently” spilled a glass of water on them… kind of like hosing 2 dogs humping with water…lol!!
The most intimate I get with my husband in public is I grab his butt in Walmart!!
Post # 4
Since I was dating, I was always a private person. I’m not a PDA type of person and now that I’m married I’m not close to become one. We hold hands and kiss but we don’t make out and certainly we hold off the PDA when we are at a restaurant. I’ve always thought that was not appropriate because no one needs to see that. Maybe I’m too old fashioned.
Post # 5
@amoret11: I agree we weren’t really like that either. Before Fiance I was even uncomfortable holding hands in public lol. We recently went to an event with some couples that must have been new or just because they were young (well younger than us we are 26) but they were super clingy and like sneaking kisses and holding hands. I kind of felt like I was in a room of teenagers, There was only one older couple there and they acted much like my guy and I did.
We always joke that we are an old married couple. We always end up at restaurants, the movies, getting ice cream etc with the middle aged and elderly couples lol. He jokes that we are off to a great start because we are out with all the couples that have learned to appreciate each other’s company over the years!
@Ill Be Mrs B: Lol. I’m guilty of doing this around our apartment complex when we walk the dogs. I figure no one is really looking…
Post # 6
We’ll hold hands and kiss and he’ll put his arm around me but that’s it.
Post # 7
We steal kisses every now and then and hold hands all the time. Sometimes I’ll lean on his back or shoulder or he’ll pull me in for a hug. That’s it, and the amount really depends on the situation. Walmart is a lot different than going out to dinner.
Post # 8
I don’t mind occasional pecks or hugs but if you can’t let go of each other or have to suck face, get a @#$%ing room.
Post # 9
Minimal to no PDA for us. We wil hold hands once in a while, or hug while we are line waiting for a movie or things like that. But that is about it.
Post # 10
we hold hands, hug, and kisses on the cheap/a peck on the lips. sometimes if im standing in front of him he’ll put his arm around me
we dont have makeout sessions – ie with tongues. or fondle any bits that we wouldnt do in front of our grandmothers
i dont see that our behaviour is inappropriate in any kind of restaurant. with tongues would be
Post # 11
I consider us to do a fair bit of PDA.
We are always holding hands, or arms linked, or fingertips tucked into each other’s belts/back pockets.
We don’t usually kiss in public, except for a quick peck; but we’re definitely always touching.
Post # 12
I’m not a fan of over the top PDA. I think it’s disgusting for one and rude people don’t need to see all of that in public.
Darling Husband and I do hold hands and the occasional peck and we hold hands and every so often I smack his butt just for fun because he gets a lil shy haha but that’s it. When we were teenagers we were bad but as we became grown we realized it was distasteful.
Post # 13
@Ivorybuttons: That is exactly how we are, also. I do agree that it looks bad when couples are making out or all over each other in public, but holding hands I think is cute. 🙂