Pear cut engagement ring choice crisis!

posted 4 days ago in Rings
  • poll: What pear cut style would you go for?
    Classic halo : (34 votes)
    40 %
    Bezel set halo : (14 votes)
    16 %
    Solitaire : (38 votes)
    44 %
  • Post # 2
    1914 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I just love a classic solitaire on a pave band. I have both a solitaire and a pave solitaire ering – one is a stand in – and they’re both comfortable, with the solitaire edging the pave band out just a little.

    Have you considered that a halo will make a pear 1-1.2cts look a lot bigger? Particularly on such small fingers. Is that a look you are interested in? Of course it will also depend on how big of a halo, or even a bezel, you want to get. Something to consider!

    Post # 3
    60 posts
    Worker bee

    I don’t have a pear, but my pave band is very comfortable. It would be slightly more upkeep than the solitaire because the tiny diamonds could fall out. Haven’t had that happen, but it’s only been a few weeks since I got engaged.

    Post # 4
    3561 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2016

    I think there was a bee on here a few months back who transitioned from a pear halo to a solitaire on a gold band and it was so classic and gorgeous. Her hands looked supremely elegant.

    I think halos can be beautiful but they have to be done with a skilled eye toward proportions and it’s too easy to miss the mark and end up with a fussy or cluttered looking ring. A solitaire is clean and timeless and can be dressed up with bands with stones or guards or stackers. I like solitaires for the ease of transitioning between more streamlined, clean looks and more blingy, sparkle overload looks.

    I’d vote for the solitaire, personally. Go with the bezel (sans halo) if you tend to be hard on your hands. The points on pears can be vulnerable. 

    Post # 6
    339 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2018

    I don’t find my pave to be uncomfortable at all, and I have very sensitive skin. I tried on one illusion neckline and was red for the rest of the day. Even though the pave on my ring reaches halfway down my finger, and therefore touches the adjecent fingers, I haven’t been uncomfortable, and I’ve been wearing it for a year. Haven’t had any issues with the pavé either, but my ring was cast in my size and is well made. 

    Post # 7
    244 posts
    Helper bee

    Pave is beautiful, but the upkeep scares me. Pave stones are known to come loose fairly easily, and they can scratch other rings. For an occasional ring, pave makes a beautiful statement, but for an everyday, low-maintenance ring, I would choose a solitaire with a plain shank, hands down. Just my two cents, for what they’re worth!

    Post # 8
    164 posts
    Blushing bee

    If it helps. My stone is 1.2 carats. I have a size 5.75 but my fingers are really long. I did a halo mainly because I was worried about the tip and I thought it helped define the shape of the pear. 

    Post # 9
    771 posts
    Busy bee

    msbtobe :  You can get a bezel that’s thin and dainty! ๐Ÿ˜€ 

    For example, something like this:

    Of course, I’m biased because I have a bezel (emerald cut), and I love them. I love how low maintenance and comfortable they are ๐Ÿ˜€ 

    Post # 10
    159 posts
    Blushing bee

    1carat center stone. Don’t know total carat weight. Ring size 4. 

    Pears are the only cut I prefer with a halo. Ring is super comfortable. 

    Post # 11
    62 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2017

    Mine is a simple halo with a .8ct center stone from James Allen. I LOVE bezel settings too though – see my wedding band lol

    Post # 12
    77 posts
    Worker bee

    I have a pear diamond engagement ring too but it’s not in the carat size range you’re looking for so I won’t post a pic. Mine is set with side tapered baguettes and I LOVE the setting. Maybe that’s something you can consider too. 

    Post # 13
    95 posts
    Worker bee

    My center stone is 1.02 and there’s .23 carats in the halo and the band. The pace goes half way down the band but isn’t uncomfortable on my fingers at all! I try to be careful with it but have definitely accidentally knocked it a few times and haven’t lost any stones yet after having it for 8 months (knock on wood). My finger size is 4.75 for reference!

    Post # 14
    1049 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    I have to agree with the pear with tapered baguettes on the side. SOO classic and beautiful

    Post # 15
    350 posts
    Helper bee

    I’ve had my pear engagement ring for about 2.5 years and wedding band for a year, both pave, no issues whatsoever so far ๐Ÿ™‚ I think if the jeweler knows what they are doing, the stones should not fall out that easily.

    Specs for my ring – 0.7 center stone, 1.25 tcw and 4.25 ring size, hope it helps! 


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