(Closed) People are making me feel bad over stupid things!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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27 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I wish I hadn’t agreed to have one. Mine is tomorrow and my own mom isn’t coming. I don’t have a big family. My closest pals Are out of town…and everyone else is too busy living their lives to attend. It’s depressing. I posted earlier today about it. Good luck and don’t let them pressure you into having a party if you don’t Want it.

Post # 4
Member
120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m not having a wedding shower. I don’t give a hoot about tradition. I have two different sets of friends that are throwing me bachelorette parties, one of which will be a combined bachelor/bachelorette party with my fiance, which some people have posited is not “traditional”.

The point of it is, you need to do what’s right for you. If you don’t want a bachelorette party or a shower then don’t do it. It’s your day. When it’s their day (or when it was), they can do whatever they please. 

Good luck!

Post # 5
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193 posts
Blushing bee

@Ashley_B:  Dont do it if you dont want to. I didnt want a big thing either. My Maid/Matron of Honor organised dinner at my favourite restaurant and it was perfect. I loved every second of it and am so glad she listened to what I wanted. It gave me a great chance to catch up with ppl and it was perfect for me.

Do whats perfect for you.

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