(Closed) People are so judgy about our townhome!

posted 9 years ago in Home
Post # 3
18628 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Who cares what people think?  If you like it, that’s all that matters!

Post # 4
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

OMG!! I totally agree we just purchased a single home with a bunch of land, and all we heard was what about the wedding , the house is too big for just the two of you what were you guys thinking why do you need 4 baths etc.. can you image what your heat bill will be etc… Were like this is what we wanted and what we saved for. Stop being judgemental but instead be happy.

So with that said I am sooooooooooo happy for you! Enjoy your home and enjoy the happiness that comes with it

Post # 5
6350 posts
Bee Keeper

Congrats on purchasing a home 🙂

Post # 6
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Congrats on the new purchase!

Post # 7
14492 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I get the same look when I tell people that we want to live in the middle of no where.  I think that people don’t understand that their choices are not necessarily our choices.  I was looking at townhouses when I got a job that took me traveling.  I didn’t want to worry about maintenance or mowing a lawn. 

Post # 8
47377 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Why do you care?

Post # 10
10283 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I actually really like townhouses. I grew up in Queens and in my town, pretty much everyone lived in row houses (basically the same thing as townhouses). After moving up north, we moved into another townhouse because it was just my mom and I and we both liked the idea of security (sharing a wall does have some benefits). 

Fiance and I currently live in a condo but in the event we were planning on staying here after our wedding (we’re moving to the west coast), we would have absolutely purchased a townhouse. They’re much less maintenance and the HOA will take care of everything. I have absolutely ZERO desire to own a single family home that I have to maintain. I’ve never mowed a lawn in my life, I don’t plan to start now!

Post # 11
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2006

Yay for you for buying a house you like!

My one caution is not to tell people that you’ll be in your townhome for X years “max”.  Not only does it kind of make it sound like it’s a temporary place for you (while it should be somewhere to live and enjoy as long as you’d like!), but you’ll also feel quite silly down the road if you’re there for seven or eight (or more) years and people remember that you have exceeded your “deadline”.  The economy, personal finances and tons of other factors can impact how long you’ll be in your house.

When we bought our condo, we swore it would be two to three years “max” and definitely “never with kids”.  Now it will be five years this spring, and our first child is due in five weeks.  I also still have no idea where I’d rather move instead, even though I do have some complaints about our condo and building.

If you approach your townhouse as being a home to love until you’re ready to move on, you’ll get more respect as a happy homeowner!

Post # 12
166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

We just got a townhouse today and I’m thrilled beyond words. I absolutely love everything about it and think it’s perfect for a (soon to be!) newlywed couple just starting out. Ours is newer (less than 5 years old), has 2 bedrooms, 1.5 baths, and a gorgeous deck. And I love that we don’t have to cut grass or shovel snow!!!


Post # 13
6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

We have a town house as a first home. We’ve been very happy here. Our neighbors are awesome and always right there when we need them. We don’t have to deal with a lawn. I think it was a really nice first home.

However, now we are ready for our second, bigger home since we’re starting a family. My husband bought this place before I was in the picture, so he wasn’t thinking about logistics of having a baby here.

Post # 14
5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

We live in a townhome and love it! We are looking to move to a bigger single-family home soon since we are planning on having a baby as soon as possible. We want a fenced in yard (our townhouse and most around here I think don’t have fenced in yards) and we want a garage. But we really love our townhome. Plenty of space for the two of us and we love all of our neighbors. Congrats on your new house! This is why they have townhomes, because they are perfect for so many people. 🙂

Post # 15
592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I think a townhouse is a great idea for a first home… and that’s not just because my husband and I are planning to buy one too LOL.  Little to no maintenance, and you still get the same space as a house (in Toronto you can get some great sized townhomes that are way bigger than some detached houses).  Plus, depending on where you buy, you may have other young couples/families living near by!  I say, be happy in your new home and who cares what people say!  Home is where the heart is 🙂

I agree with postitnote though… no need to tell people that you’re only planning to be there for x amount of years.  It doesn’t matter how long you’re there as long as you’re happy.  Be proud of your purchase!

Post # 16
1551 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

@Eight6Eleven:  First of all, congrats on your new home.  If you have found something that you love AND you can afford, that can only be a win-win.

But if you’ve not said anything in reply to the naysayers, you are a far better person than I am.  If anyone said something negative like that to me, I’d tell them “Well, that’s so nice.  Now when we decide we need more privacy or have trouble reselling (or whatever they think is an issue), you can thank us for giving you the opportunity to be pleased with yourself and  the satisfaction of knowing you were right all along.”

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