(Closed) People coming to Shower/Bachelorette that aren’t wedding guests

posted 7 years ago in Parties
  • poll: What should I do?
    Do nothing - they will have fun at the party, and if they bring a gift, accept it graciously. : (6 votes)
    43 %
    Ask your sister to tell them to please not bring gifts. : (1 votes)
    7 %
    Go ahead and invite them & their husbands to the wedding, and hope for a few "No" RSVPs! : (4 votes)
    29 %
    Ask your sister to ask them to please not come. (I REALLY don't want to do this one!) : (3 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
    7587 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    This is another reason why facebook is awful. Someone is going to get their feelings hurt here. 

    Post # 4
    1276 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I think your Maid/Matron of Honor made a mistake and needs to inform these ladies that she meant to have the facebook event private. If you are okay with them attending, go ahead and let them. However, your sister needs to explain to them that unfortunately, you do not have the space to include them at the wedding so they know ahead of time. 

    Post # 6
    1326 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Tre Bella, Mesa, AZ

    @Pupperoni: Ditto

    Post # 7
    4803 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @Pupperoni: I completely agre, just read this post again and take it as my response too, OP!

    Post # 8
    1144 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    @Bubu82: I think your sister should have made it private from the get go. I think your sister needs to tell them the snafu with facebook, and let them know to not expect an invite to the wedding. They can then make a decision to not come, to come and bring a gift or to come but not bring a gift.

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