(Closed) people inviting themselves to the wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3303 posts
Sugar bee

I really doubt that people whom you have no contact with much will save thousands of dollars to be able to come to your wedding. Me personally, I have better things to spend thousands on if you aren’t family or a close friend. Don’t say anything…. they will figure it out when they don’t get an invitation…. if they were even serious about it in the first place.

Post # 4
5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I sincerely doubt there’s any intention behind those remarks…it’s fine

Post # 5
433 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012


People say a lot of things in light conversation, I wouldn’t take it seriously. Don’t say anything and if anyone asks about invites, just say that it’s just for close family.

In other news…Congratulations on your awesome destination wedding locale! Wow, you are a lucky duck! We are going to Ireland and maybe Scotland for our Honeymoon and I cannot wait, I’ve been dying to go there.

Post # 7
2556 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I think it’s just one of those off comments that people make, to lighten the situation.  To express envy.  I’ve done it before when people talk about AMAZING vacations!  There’s never an ounce of seriousness or intent behind my joke.  I wouldn’t worry about it/say anything to these people.

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