(Closed) People questioning our reasons

posted 7 years ago in 20 Something
Post # 3
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Ah! Just ignore them! If you and your fiancee are sure of your decision, you don’t need to convince anyone else! I can understand, it can be annoying though. I think its great that you guys are so sure of yourselves and are tying the knot. If  your confident nothing’s going to change between the two of you (which I’m sure you are) then why not!!!

Congratulations!

Post # 4
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

People are always going to say something. I came across a thread where someone mentioned that mid to late twenties was too young to have your first baby, really?? So steer your own life, you are the captain!! Lol

Post # 5
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562 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Let them talk. You know the real reasons. They will find out in 9 months that their suspicions were wrong!

Post # 6
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@Mr.Smithsgirl: Wow! Late 20’s too early to have a baby??? That’s crazy! I want to have 3 babies by the time I’m 30 :-)..hehe..over-ambitious I know, but 2 at the least because I want my kids to be close in age.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

hehe…. yes but that’s when I tell them my fiance is pregnant and we’re getting married just to have rampant sex before he has the baby. 😛 But that’s just me… 

Post # 8
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319 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@vetgirl: Ha, we’re having a short engagement. No one has asked me to my face (I have a pretty strong personality… I think they’re afraid) but my Maid/Matron of Honor has reported that several acquaintences of ours have asked her if I’m preggo.

I figure it doesn’t really matter because they’ll figure it out for themselves in a few months when there’s no bump. Don’t worry yourself about it.

My suggested response? A quizzical look and a sweetly asked “why would you ask that?” It puts them on the spot and calls them out without being rude.

Post # 9
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@susan23:

Lol I found it a little strange myself, i mean in the grand scheme of things whats a difference between 3 or 4 years?

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