- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
My fiance&I got engaged in Jauary and decided to go ahead and get married this year in a few months. We also decided to have it really small and simple.
We plan to get married on a Mini Golf course, where we had our first date. The owner says we can have atleast 15 people due to small space. That was great because we both don’t like being in front of huge crowds.
My mother is helping with most things and we have everything covered except for the cake and food for guest. My family is okay with the small wedding.
His family not so much. They hate the fact that we only wanted parents, they are seperated the dad has been married three times and has six kids, the mother married five times with only three.
His parents want EVERYODY to come to the wedding, Aunts,uncles, grandparents and siblings. The only two siblings coming are his youngest sisters on the Dad’s side because 1. They are my little flower girls and 2. The dad refused to dress up or even come if they couln’t come. His parents are paying for anything. My mother, my fiance and I have coughed up alomost 2000$ for the wedding (Most is for the honeymoon) and they havent pitched in a dime. Only hurtful words.
This is our wedding and we think we should have whoever we want at the wedding. They have complained about everything from guest list, honeymoon and food. I honestly am about to die. I have no idea what to say to these people anymore. Everything we do is bad to them, we wanted our wedding to be perfect but they are making me not want to even have a wedding.
PLEASE PLEASE give me an idea on what to do??