(Closed) People who don't RSVP – End up being Will Attends or Declines?

posted 5 years ago in Guests
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

All of the non-rsvpers from my side of the guest list were nos but all of the non-rsvpers from FI’s side were a yes. Such a wierd split!

Post # 3
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1409 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

My experience is that it’s a complete crapshoot. Trying to predict it is like all the methods of trying to predict if you will have a boy or girl, lol—After all is said and done overall statistics is still 50/50. 

Post # 4
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5965 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

We had a few lost RSVPs and a few who forgot and said they were coming but the majority of no responses were declines.

Post # 5
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2163 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

For my sisters mist if no RSVPs were declines. 

Post # 6
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6213 posts
Bee Keeper

Anyone I had to actually contact was a decline.  Some never got up with me at all.  It was a far larger number of people than I would expect (prob 1/3) and I kind of wish the same will happen to some of them when their turn comes (but not really b/c I like them all)

Post # 7
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2165 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

I think it is 50/50. The will-attends are those who say “I don’t have to RSVP! You know without asking that I wouldn’t miss your wedding, for the world!”

The other ones say “Oh crap, a wedding invitation. I don’t want to go to this thing. And I will look like a real ass if I decline by RSVP. I’ll just ignore it and lay low.”

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

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chevaldame :  all but 1 of my approximately 40 were no. I said it before, my Mother-In-Law was surprised that I even had to ask if they were coming. 😒

Post # 9
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8674 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

No one related to either of us RSVP’d (more than 1/4 of the wedding…) but they’re 100% attending.  The friends who didn’t RSVP 100% did not end up making it, though a few tried to get their act together when I called (3 had either mixed up the RSVP date or, in one case, mixed up the wedding date… why he thought we sent out invitations for our wedding 14 months in advance beats me)

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