(Closed) People who expect to be in your bridal party!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Honey bee

Dont feel guilted into haveing her in your party unless you want her there. If you do value her friendship and want her to know it, but not have her in the party you could ask her to perform another role such as a reading, or a personal assistant that day (its popular in some regions) or to just get ready with you and the girls the morning of

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t have people in it that you dont’ really, really want in your wedding.

As long as you did not previously promise her that she will be in it and now you’ve changed your mind, you should be ok. I was told for years that I would be in someone’s wedding, and when they never asked me and chose others instead, I was deeply hurt and it damaged the friendship.

Otherwise, if she asks you if she will be in it, just tell her that you are not sure about any of those details yet and see if she backs off.

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