- heathaah
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
Anyone doing this (or have done it)? It skeeves me out so bad to basically stretch out my own vagina….but tearing sounds bad too! π
Anyone doing this (or have done it)? It skeeves me out so bad to basically stretch out my own vagina….but tearing sounds bad too! π
@heathaah: I’ve been reading about it a little in some of my books, and while it seems like a great way to include my husband, it totally freaks me out. Fingers, and stretching and vegtable oil..eeek! Hopefully someone let’s us know if it worked for them.
I have been considering it. I haven’t had the courage to try it yet though. I’ve read a ton about it and the benefits.
I cant even imagine asking my husband to help me with something like that – “hey honey, can you come stretch me out please?”, it would never work for me π
I thought about trying it myself, but it became clear to me I was going to have a c-section so I never did it in the end.
and i also am weird like that – had I had a vaginal birth I really did not want my husband to watch it, which I know is not the norm!
Hahaha… I thought about using Google to find out what this was, but was afraid of what exactly the results would be. But, from the responses of PP, I think I have a good idea!
I think if I seriously asked DH to do this, he would. But I/we would find it so akward/uncomforatble/embarassing that I don’t think we would be able to go through with it.
Hopefully this is something I will have to decide one day…
But I think I would want to try with my DH, but I have a feeling it would end with us laughing uncontrolably
DH has been looking forward to this. I’m going to ask my midwife at my appt. on Monday when we should start doing this. I mean, do I just use the same olive oil I cook with? Ewww.
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