Post # 1
Member3363 posts
Sugar bee
- heathaah
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
Anyone doing this (or have done it)? It skeeves me out so bad to basically stretch out my own vagina….but tearing sounds bad too! 🙂
MemberPost # 3
Member2025 posts
Buzzing bee
- pinky44
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
@heathaah: I’ve been reading about it a little in some of my books, and while it seems like a great way to include my husband, it totally freaks me out. Fingers, and stretching and vegtable oil..eeek! Hopefully someone let’s us know if it worked for them.
Post # 4
Member7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
- zippylef
- 9 years ago
I have been considering it. I haven’t had the courage to try it yet though. I’ve read a ton about it and the benefits.
Post # 5
Member2695 posts
Sugar bee
- Sunchick19
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: February 2008
I cant even imagine asking my husband to help me with something like that – “hey honey, can you come stretch me out please?”, it would never work for me 🙂
I thought about trying it myself, but it became clear to me I was going to have a c-section so I never did it in the end.
Post # 6
Member3363 posts
Sugar bee
- heathaah
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
View original reply
Post # 7
Member2695 posts
Sugar bee
- Sunchick19
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: February 2008
View original reply
and i also am weird like that – had I had a vaginal birth I really did not want my husband to watch it, which I know is not the norm!
Post # 8
Member533 posts
Busy bee
- Miss Smurf
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
Hahaha… I thought about using Google to find out what this was, but was afraid of what exactly the results would be. But, from the responses of PP, I think I have a good idea!
I think if I seriously asked DH to do this, he would. But I/we would find it so akward/uncomforatble/embarassing that I don’t think we would be able to go through with it.
Post # 9
Member5891 posts
Bee Keeper
- KoiKove
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Hopefully this is something I will have to decide one day…
But I think I would want to try with my DH, but I have a feeling it would end with us laughing uncontrolably 
Post # 10
Member3363 posts
Sugar bee
Post # 11
Member5891 posts
Bee Keeper
Post # 12
Member2025 posts
Buzzing bee
- pinky44
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
View original reply
Post # 13
Member339 posts
Helper bee
- mrsjazz
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2009
View original reply
DH has been looking forward to this. I’m going to ask my midwife at my appt. on Monday when we should start doing this. I mean, do I just use the same olive oil I cook with? Ewww.
Post # 14
Member3363 posts
Sugar bee
Post # 15
Member9815 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
Post # 16
Member5117 posts
Bee Keeper
The topic ‘Perineal Massage?’ is closed to new replies.