(Closed) Personal Attendant Concerns

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would have a talk to her about it. But I agree with you, it sounds like a job for the person you can’t make a bridesmaid. If you are best friends, you might feel confident to ask why you’re a PA and not a Bridesmaid or Best Man (bridesmaid).

Whether you’re a Bridesmaid or Best Man or a PA, it’s not your job to help organise her wedding. That is the job of the bride and groom. I would flat out refuse to help with the dresses – she chose the BMs, she can deal with them.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would talk to her about it. I think it is super unfair. One of my Bridesmaid or Best Man is really excited to help me with all of this work, and all of them in general are really excited and helpful. It sounds like she should hire a planner because thats what she wants you to do. I understand wanting to share this with the Maid/Matron of Honor and BMs. I’m not really sure what a PA is. It sounds like a Maid/Matron of Honor position to me, just without the good parts. Maybe ask her what a PA means to her.

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