(Closed) Personal Shower Gift in addition to Joint Bridesmaids' Gift?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
2819 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

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willowbee :  If you want to give an extra gift, by all means do so! I would however mention it to the other bms before hand if they are the type that would think you went behind all of them to look better to the bride. 

Post # 3
5040 posts
Bee Keeper

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willowbee :  If I’m paying for all my expenses to be at the bridal party, I would just chip in for the joint Bridesmaid or Best Man gift. But if you want to give a separate gift only for om you, nothing wrong with that. If the other BM’s bring it up with you, just tell them you bought the gift already a while back even before you found out that you guys were doing a joint gift. 

Post # 4
1110 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

If I were in this situation…I’d just do the joint gift for the shower and funnel the extra funds into the wedding gift.

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