(Closed) Phone Conversation during Bachelor Party? to talk or not to talk…..

posted 12 years ago in Parties
Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Whatever, I would just say ok. It’s a one time thing!! He’s only getting married this once (hopefully)

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

You need to let him have this time alone with his guys. If needed you can talk to him in the morining when he is in transition. But honestly I have a couple of things to base my opionon off of. Ok, I went to a bachelorrette party last year that the bride who happend to be the Fiance of my now Fiance cousin, and she had to call him! Well she did not like that he was drunk at his bachelor party and it went on for along time of her calling him back and bitching at him to which she still continued to berate him the following week at the wedding over stupid stuff. But it was so annoying that here we are trying to have fun as a group of girls and her calling made a couple other girls bug their guys at the same party. It really brought the night down and I ended up leaving! I also have a friend that no matter where we are or what we are doing even in the middle of a conversation will text her bf constantly. We will all be having a good time and she is sitting there texting. Its rude to your company so I do not advise you do it during your party. Its one night, enjoy yourself!

Post # 20
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2020

You’re marrying him, so you obviously trust him… so don’t worry about it. Talk to him in the morning and send him a couple texts if you feel like it. Play it cool… Why spend your day worrying about what he’s doing? Have fun with your girlfriends and talk to him on Sunday.

Post # 21
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Maybe a little bit, but so is he.  I think that since you guys are pretty used to speaking regularly, it would be a nice gesture for you to not call him or text him that day, but if he decides to, then respond happily.  I think that it’s not necessarily the calls that would bother his guy friends, it’s you kind of getting in on the guys’ weekend.  But if he calls you, it’s just fine, and you know he probably will since the pressure would be off.  I am refraining from calling / texting my man this weekend and I know it’s hard! But he called me last night on his own to thank me for being so cool with him this weekend, and impressing his friends by ordering him a drink by phone for his arrival.  You should try that! Win points 🙂

Post # 22
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Blushing bee

Your hen party is your day.  His bachelor day is his day.

Keep them special by deeping them separate.

Absence does make the heart grow fonder and it will be so fun to have a reunion.

Post # 23
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think that a little ‘checkin in’ (hey, how are you, having fun? love you. bye’) call or two isn’t being a burden on him. I’m not saying call and have 25 minute conversations or anything (the guys might start to look at him oddly too), but even when I am out with my family for the day, I pick up the phone and talk a quick minute or two when my Fiance calls (even though it’s ‘family time’).

Post # 24
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I honestly cannot say how many times T and i talk on the phone but we’re just too busy to talk alot.  We may text once or twice, and if I don’t see him we talk after work shortly and then a quick convo at bedtime to say g’night.

When he does guy stuff we talk after that or the next morning.  Same w/me.  I trust him and if he has a bachelor party (which he will I’m sure) then it is what it is.  We all know it’s about that last fling at singledom. I’m not gonna be on the phone during my party I can tell ya.  We know we’re going to remain faithful and our bonds are strong.  Nothing wrong with a hello during the day or maybe even a “honey..don’t you wish you knew what I was doing right now!” is ok.  I know I could just hear myself saying that to T whilst out with my gf’s!!!! 

In fact, imho last year on opening night of “Sex in the City” movie, it was like one giant worldwide bachelorette party!  My gf’s and I met out for martinis dressed to the 9’s, went to the movie, over-capacity and all female there, and then out again after.  T called near midnight and said hi quicky and that’s what I told him!  I said “honey don’t you wish you knew what we were doing” .   So I’ll def probably do that and maybe a quick call once.  But no hangin’ on the phone when I’ve got partying to accomplish! 

Post # 24
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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Kristin25:  I am definitely not going to call my fiancee during his bachelor party because I do not want to bother him and I want him to have fun and be comoftable. I would also be irritated if he called me during my bachelorette…sometimes a short break from each other is very healthy 😉

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