(Closed) Photography request causing issue

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2313 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

You did her a favor, whether she realizes it or not. If she can’t accept that you were doing what was best for her photos and her wedding, then let her stew in her juices! She’ll understand when she finds another amateur photographer and is dissatisfied with her pictures and realizes why you declined.

Post # 4
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1701 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

This is a “work” friend, not a real friend.  I would just let it go and not worry about it, as ohheavenlyday noted, you did her a favor whether she realizes it or not.

Post # 5
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2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

You did the right thing.  You understood your limitations and decided to decline gracefully. 

I would let it go and not worry about it.  If she’s just a work friend, you don’t need to worry about her opinions @ this point. 

And the wedding is over, hopefully she’ll come back to her senses. 

Post # 7
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4771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I guess she never intended to invite you as a guest.  She wanted a free vendor.  You both did each other a favor.

Post # 8
Bee
981 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

You seriously did her a favor. She needs to hire a pro, and being a “friendor” is hard even when you’re being 100% legit hired by someone you know.

Post # 9
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231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I wonder if she was mad because she thought you’d do the photos for free!

I am in the business of making things… for work and on my own. A lot of people expect things for free simply because they know me personally. So that’s where I’m coming from on that!

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