(Closed) Picked up my dress and feeling hurt, sad, angry

posted 5 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
Member
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@mrsctobee:  Woah. What the heck kind of alterations place do you go to? That is unacceptable and completely RUDE. Are you okay hon? I would have cursed her out. Then I would have gone home and cried to mrtau!

Post # 5
Member
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@mrsctobee: PLEASE don’t get a new dress! Find SOME way to rock your current dress and forget what that horrible woman said! Do you have friends or family or someone who can recommend somewhere to get it altered? Is the woman at the store you bought the dress or at the dry cleaners?

 

Post # 6
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

What? I would find another seamstress if you have the time. If not I would give her a serious piece of your mind and tell her she’s a seamstress, not a fashion consultant. This woman needs to just do her job. 

Post # 7
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@mrsctobee:  WHAT?? I am so sorry you had to go through this! What in the world is wrong with that woman? How insulting and completely unprofessional…where is she, I can kick her butt!

What are you having done to your dress? What a biotch!!!

Post # 8
Member
625 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I can’t even begin to understand how horrible that must have been. What a terrible human being.

Report her shop to the Better Buisiness Bureu for not doing her frikken job, and demand your money back. Then find another seamstress. Even if it takes 3 hours. Nobody deserves that sort of treatment, and everyone deserves to feel like a bride. It’s not any seamstresses place to make snarky ass comments, it’s their job to alter the dress so that you can look your best. 

If somebody treated me that badly, you’d best believe that noone that I came in contact with would ever give buisiness to her or her shop again. I would be checking people out in my cashier line, and I would be like “Thank you for shopping with _______. Make sure never to get alterations at ________. Have a nice day!”

Post # 9
Member
847 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

She sounds like a bitter old woman whose own life/marriage wasn’t or isn’t so great and she’s taking it out on you!  Try not to let what she said get you so down girl!  You got your dress for a reason.  I’m sure you look lovely and your Fiance is going to wonder what they did do deserve you when they see you walking down the aisle!  Her opinion doesn’t matter.  Make sure you go online and rate her on yelp and any other such site and relate what a horrible attitude this woman has.  And never again give her your business.  Even if it means a drive, go somewhere else next time!

Chin up!  Your wedding is going to be awesome!

Post # 10
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4522 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

What the what?

I don’t believe in violence, but I want to smack your seamstress.

I bet you look fantastic, and I send you BIG HUGS.

Post # 11
Member
4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Seriously?  Fk that woman!!  I would be going on every review site possible to tear that place a  new one.  The one with a problem is HER not YOU.  I am so sorry this happened!

Post # 12
Member
255 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Why did you go back to her ( this is the second time right) and have you paid her? If not i wouldn’t and secondly i would tell EVERYONE so she loses business!!

Post # 13
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3092 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I wasn’t so sure the first time around that she was actually being a huge b-hole but now OMG what a wreckless SOB.  She shouldn’t be in business.  It’s one thing to “make improvements” to make a dress more flattering, that’s her job, it’s quite another to be bashing a person.  Wow…I’m so so sorry that happened…and with all the stress…I just can’t imagine. 

If it were me, I’d ditch her.  Don’t deal with her anymore.  If you are going to pay or write a review or whatever let the SO do it.  Make sure they’re able to stand their ground with her…hell they should schedule an appointment just to chew her mean ass out!

She’s wrong…you will look beautiful and dresses are for any damn person who wants to wear one.  She’s wrong.  She’s wrong!

Post # 14
Member
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

OMG! This is insane! What a horrible woman. I assume she doesn’t care about her business as word of mouth is everything and it is obvious when a bride leaves your shop in tears, she is going to tell people about it. There is no reason that you wouldn’t look just as stunning as a size 6 women!!!! Ignore her, just tell yourself you look absolutley stunning – as I’m sure you will do 🙂

Post # 15
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3244 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

but…I mean…how big could you (or ANYONE) possibly be that they shouldn’t be allowed to wear a dress? I know her comments were hurtful, honey. I’m sorry. But if you can, try to think about how ridiculous it sounds. You should wear pants to your wedding? Who does that? It might even make you chuckle if you think about the fact that her comments besides being mean were just dumb as hell is hot.

Post # 16
Member
12976 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow… just wow.  I think it’s time to open a can of whoopa$$ on that woman.  Not literally, but HOLY CRAP how rude can you be?  Is there any way you can get a new seamstress in the next few weeks?  Maybe if you post your location, some Bees local to you could suggest good places to try!

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