(Closed) Picking a Best Man – Etiquette?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
2362 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - New York Botanical Garden

i would just have two “best man”s and give them different responsiblities

Post # 4
2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

would your brother be offended? my sister told me flat out that she didn’t mind not being Maid/Matron of Honor and that if she wasn’t a bridesmaid that was ok too!

Post # 6
831 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My FI’s brother was married and had my Fiance as the best man, but for our wedding, he’s not even part of the wedding party and it doesn’t bother him at all. I think with everything being so non-traditional/modern now days, it makes almost anything acceptable. So if you rather not have your brother as the Best Man I think it’s perfectly okay.

Post # 7
16018 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I don’t think it’s required. If you truly have a best friend who isn’t your brother, you can choose him.

My best friend has a sister, but she still plans on choosing me to be her Maid of Honor when she gets married.

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