(Closed) Picking my MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@Cinvan: I can see your problem.  My first thought is your BFF as Maid/Matron of Honor.  Honestly, you are going to only have 2, so they are both going to be important to you regardless of which one you chose.  I think they would feel honored with either one, quite honestly.  Your BFF may be a help if you can email her pics of dresses, flowers, ect – thanks to the internet communication these days. It’s a great way to incorporate/include someone.  You really have to go with your heart and think of it this way… who do you picture standing next to you in the ceremony… who do you have right behind you to hand your flowers to…. you need to picture “the day”.  Everything else will work out.  Like I said, BOTH sounds like they’d be involved in most decisions and the process since you only have two standing up.

Post # 4
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that you should stay true to your original thought of having your Boyfriend or Best Friend as your Maid/Matron of Honor. You two have history and the distance shouldn’t change that. The fact that you’re including your SIL in your party is still a nice gesture. I’ve always thought that that BM’s were people to help during your entire wedding planning & prep process. Either way I’m sure both of them will feel very honored.

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