(Closed) Picking the BEST man..or 5??

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
22 posts

Had a similar problem, We do in fact have 2 best men, but really could not choose between the two. Maybe having him narrow it down to 1 may be a lot to ask, maybe having him do 2 may help… and maybe one groomsman? Have the other men be specifically ushers and the groomsmen can just relax and not worry about this aspect of the day, that way all parties are involved and you can have even numbers?

Post # 4
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Loverboy has 6 best men. He says it’s because “they’re all the best.” I lolled. It’s fine, I think?

Post # 6
1577 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have 4 maids of honor and he has 3 best men.  We didn’t feel like it was fair to single anyone out because they’re all very special to us.  If he really wants all five to be best men, what difference would it really make?  If it really bothers you, just tell him that and maybe you two can work out a compromise.  Maybe one or two of them can be ushers or something instead.

Post # 7
3254 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t think he needs to unless it’s going to bug the crap out of you- lol. Neither of us chose a best man or maid of honor; we each have three attendants on an equal level because we couldn’t choose.

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