(Closed) Pictures from a wedding that began a failed marriage: yea or nay?

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Is it a good idea to use pictures of FI and his brother from his brother's wedding to his ex-wife?
    Yea : (36 votes)
    55 %
    Nay : (29 votes)
    45 %
  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @GreenEyedMoon: that’s great news! They are probably beautiful pictures and if she is not in them, go for it!

    Post # 18
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    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I wouldn’t include them personally. 

    Post # 19
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    It can be downright painful to go to weddings when your love life has not turned out the way you want.  If I was his brother, I would be feel much, much worse looking at those photos.  It always seems to me that if there is a chance of hurting someone, just don’t go there.  And if I was in his shoes, since I can’t think of anything more devastating than losing my marriage, even being asked to display pics from it in front of everyone would break my heart.  I mean, what can he really say?  He’d sort of have to take it in the face for his bro b/c it’s his brother’s day now, but it still sucks.

    It also seems like bad juju for you.  FBIL thought he was signing up forever on his day too.  Surely there are other great pics of the two of them?

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