(Closed) pissed off

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Wow..that’s not acceptable.  he needs to put his WEDDING before weed.  He’s commiting his life to you, can he not sacrifice one week of weed for that? not cool

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper

It is a big deal because it upset you.  Have you talked to him about it?  You said this isn’t the first time he’s done something selfish so now is definitely the time to communicate with him about it!

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Wow 40 dollars a week thats over 2,000 dollars a year… And he took it from your dress fund that is not cool at all. 

Post # 7
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

40 dollars/week on anything besides food is a lot of money.  I’m not against weed per se, but if my husband was spending that much a week on alcohol, I’d be concerned.  Plus, taking money from you without asking?  Hiding his behavior because you might disapprove?  These are all red flags to me.  Not “break up with him, he’s a jerk” red flags…just “you guys need to work a lot of things out by talking and work on communication before getting married” red flags.  Good luck!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I dont see the problem in him smoking his weed but he needs to get his priorities straight! Best of luck to you! 

Post # 10
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

He shouldn’t lie to you.

Also, if you had your tonsils out, he should be helping you.  I’ve had it done and I needed some help (at least with getting water – PLEASE HYDRATE – so important, and going to the doctor) and was in quite a bit of pain.  I hope it all works out well. Just make sure that he takes care of you!

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I don’t have a problem with weed either, but taking money like that without consulting you first, especially from the wedding fund is not cool. That money had a purpose that someone gave to you in good faith that it would be used for something you needed, it’s not his own personal recreation fund.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@anonymouscabage: Yeah, I’d definitely nip this in the bud. My husband and I aren’t like YOU NEED TO REPORT THAT PACK OF GUM YOU BOUGHT but if he was taking money from something I was setting aside and didn’t ask I would not be pleased!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I would be really pissed, although it’s harder for me to give an opinion because I wouldn’t date a smoker of cigarettes even, let alone weed which could wind them up i jail if they’re caught with it. But $40 a week? That is a lot, especially when you’re saving for a wedding and the money he’s taking it from is specifically going towards that.

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

UGH! mine is with beer. UGH! GRR

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