(Closed) Pity Party for one!

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
6222 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

@StL.Ashley:  I would go. You don’t have to miss out on seeing your friends just because the bride was inconsiderate

Post # 4
2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

AHhh I know how you feel… I was the only one of my group of college friends not invited to my best friend from college’s wedding.  Yeah, I’m on the west coast and they’re all on the east coast, but I would have made the trip! It really stung to see all the happy pictures of them that they posted on facebook.  It made me miss them a ton, as well as feel left out. 

If the after party is unrelated to the actual wedding and in a public place, hell, I’d go! Just to get to spend time with all of them – I’m sure its uncommon for them all to be in town at the same time. 

Post # 5
11657 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

i know how you feel – FH and I weren’t invited to the wedding of his old roommate last year.  She and I were also really good friends when they lived together and then we ended up working together too – she and I hung out regularly with 3 other girls who were all invited and we were not – it stings.


It sucks.  Go to the afterparty, who cares.  Who knows why you were left off the guest list but go see your friends!

Post # 6
2969 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Awe, what a total bummer! I’m sorry! I’d be sad too. But I think you should go to the after party. You’ll have a great time and trust me, you’d only be ‘that girl’ if you showed up at the reception after dinner and said ‘what? All my friends are here, it’s not like you have to feed me or anything’ lol

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