- 3 years ago
My family is planning this big 2 week ultimate vacation for 2016.
I say this with dread because as much as i LOVE my brother – he is an absolute nut to vacation with. has to plan EVERYTHING to the T. Like he had a binder he brought with us last time. Once he wasnt even with us, just his Girlfriend was and he was getting mad because we werent out the door of the hotel when he would have liked us and kept calling all morning.
anyway, its supposed to be more for my mom so of course i want to go. But i know its going to be pretty expensive for me and SO (even though he can probably only go for 1 week). This is supposed to be for January 2016 and my bro is just beginning his planing.
but i know without a doubt we will be engaged in the next year (possibly this xmas if he gets his bonus!) so obviously if we were to get engaged, we would not be able to afford this big trip – as we would have to be saving for a wedding in 2016 or 2017! And my mom lives overseas and only comes over every few years, so it would be unlikely she would do both trips. So i have been kind of disengaged from this whole trip and don’t get excited because i feel like its not going to happen – my mom would turn into instant wedding planner and I am sure tell my bro to put the trip on hold.
but i dont want to say hey stop planning me as apart of the trip because i might get engaged soon.
would you say something? or just go along with the planning?