(Closed) Planning

posted 10 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Rancho Bernardo Inn

I think no matter the age it can be hard for parents to let go.  Getting married is a transition for everyone.  I’d encourage you to keep talking to your mom and be open with how you are both feeling.  Reassure her that just because you are getting married, it doesn’t mean that you will suddenly disapear.  This last xmas our mom kept talking about how it was the "last xmas."  I had to remind them that things may be different next year, but it isn’t the last one. 

 If your mom is hindering you, maybe give her a job to do on her own.  Even if it is researching for vendors and giving you feedback.   I know sent my mom a list of florist websites to look at and she has been doing that.  I may or may not take her advice but at least she feel involved.  She also looked at tons of wedding dresses to "help" me.  Hope that helps!

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